My husband traveled for work, but his job let me stay home with our son. After two years of marriage, we found out I was pregnant with our second child.
Shortly after, he went on one of his trips, but he cut all forms of contact, and didn’t return. I became frantic, trying to figure out what had happened, and found he had been unfaithful. I packed our bags and moved in with my parents.
I emailed him, telling him I knew, and offered him a chance to explain. He responded by saying it was over, that he was unhappy, and there would be no reconciliation. I was devastated, feeling betrayed and abandoned.
I had found God at a young age and remained faithful throughout my life. While I never blamed God, I found myself frustrated and disappointed. I wanted to understand why this was allowed to happen.
I relied heavily on Jeremiah 29:11, God’s message on His plan for me. I worked to remember it is not our place to understand God’s plan, but rather to put our trust in Him.
Our church was kind; they showed us compassion and helped me gather everything my boys needed. I became determined to be the best mom, always present for my kids and meeting all their needs. I made sure they attended church and understood the Gospel. Bible School became something my children looked forward to.
When my youngest was three years old, he claimed he was going to be a Pastor. If this is his calling, I pray he sees it through.
My ex has returned and gets to see his kids. I have a job and a home, and we never go without. God always provides!
Have I forgiven my ex for what he did? Not entirely. I know by relying on God, I will be able to in time. Some wounds take longer to process and heal.
My advice to single parents is to trust. Trust in God, find a church home and persevere. Do not be afraid to ask for help. I would not be where I am today without God and our church family. Through trusting and believing in Him, I discovered a strength I had never known before. God is one prayer away. Believe in Him.
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